"In America, sex is an obsession; in other parts of the world, it is a fact."

-Marlene Dietrich

Sexuality is an essential, lifelong aspect of being human. Unfortunately, in America, our "obsession" with sex creates discomfort around talking about sex and health. Fear of public censure is a major deterrent to dialogue about sexual health. We - parents, children, community leaders - dance around the subject, dodging candid, honest, open, and balanced communication. Public discourse is polarized by extreme positions that - with the aid of popular media - increase this fear, effectively impeding much needed discussions about sex and health. For many Americans, sex becomes identified with shame and guilt, rather than health and pleasure.

The consequences range from unintended pregnancies to sexually transmitted infections to exploitation and violence. Healthy sexuality is not only a moral issue, but a public health one as well. And it is not enough to try to change policy alone, because policy battles will continue ad infinitum. We must address the root causes of these symptoms: our culture.

Real Life. Real Talk. is an initiative designed to change the culture around sex and health in Portland. In order to do this, community members must work together to participate in a public dialogue about REAL LIFE.

Today's Question:

Why do we have such a hard time talking about sexuality in America?